Tailored recovery programmes for people struggling with body image and eating disorders

Embracing Recovery: Individual & Collective Support

  • Eating disorders are mental illnesses that affect individuals mentally, emotionally, physically, and socially. There are various types of eating disorders classified in the DSM, including anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, and ARFID.

    Not everyone meets the criteria for an eating disorder diagnosis, but that doesn't mean they aren't struggling or unwell.

    Personally, I view it this way: if there are negative thoughts and emotions surrounding food, along with rituals or rules, and if it interferes with life, then it's crucial to seek help. Living with these challenges isn't true freedom, and the journey towards freedom doesn't have to be done alone.

  • Body image is something most people struggle with, but it becomes a problem when it becomes a main focus in life and life-interfering.

    Many people have occasional thoughts about their bodies and will make negative comments, but when those thoughts become all-consuming, followed by awful emotions, it is time to get some support in learning to accept and value your body.

    We do not have to live at war with our bodies. Often, body image stems from a negative thought which may have come from a comment someone made, something you perceived, something you have heard or seen in the media, and many more places.

    Then our mind goes looking for evidence to support this thought, and it creates a belief about our body which can be followed by awful emotions, which is why so many people end up punishing their bodies to try and fix the feelings and thoughts.

    A lot of people with eating disorders struggle with body image, but what they see and physically feel is distorted. We can all have healthy relationships with our bodies, which allows us to get the best out of life.

  • Coaching is extremely powerful. The power of lived experience helps people make sense of their own journey while finding hope for themselves in someone else's freedom.

    Coaching is also based on attachment theory, where a safe and secure relationship is created, and in the context of this relationship, it helps people try new things and fight their eating disorder.

    Coaching at Redefined is based on Hope; we believe that there is hope for everyone. 

    Encouragement is powerful; we believe in the power of putting courage into people for the battle. 

    Reassurance is key; where our voice gets to become louder than the eating disorders.

    There is something comforting about having someone to do the journey with and to rely on them for support, as well as being equipped with tools and accountability. Coaching is about the 'how' in recovery, so we get to help people outwork their recovery.

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  • At a time when I believe my daughter was on the verge of developing a serious eating disorder, reaching out to Jess who connected us with Bailey was a life saver. Relatable, intelligent and personable made the rapport between the two an easy process. What could have been years of anguish has now set us up to have a plan moving forward which as a pre-teen I believe is essential. Bailey will remain in my daughters life as a person to go to if needed and this is invaluable. I couldn't be more grateful.

    AMY

  • I remember my first meet-up with Jess after being stuck in a 2 year love-hate relationship with myself. I remember telling her that I couldn't see an end, and that there was no hope. Over 4 years later, I'm still so thankful for Jess and would definitely recommend her to anyone who is struggling with a similar battle. The journey to freedom wasn't instantaneous; it was hard. However, it was one that I definitely couldn't have walked without Jess.

    Hannah

  • When I started to believe that my eating disorder was my identity Jess helped show me I am so much more than that. Jess taught me that I have a purpose, dreams and a life that is so much bigger than my illness. She gives me hope that full recovery is possible and that it is never too late to turn things around. Jess helps me break down the barriers of anorexia and gives me the strength and tools to fight the bully that my mind can be. She is a provider of true and genuine hope.

    Nicole

  • Jess was one of my biggest cheerleaders. She came along side me and believed from day one that I would get through the eating disorder. I remember at times feeling hopeless but Jess would always remind me of how far I had come and would keep telling me some keys to freedom - those keys worked! I'm so free from bulimia, those toxic thoughts that once held captive over me are no longer. Jess has the biggest heart for people, she's experienced true freedom herself and it's so evident with the way she champions people on.

    Courtney

  • Beginning recovery is scary, isolating and hard. Initially I thought that my eating disorder shaped my identity and that I would be nothing without it. However, Jess gave me hope. She encouraged me to discover that I have a purpose, a life, and freedom where I am not restricted by my eating disorder. I felt so much comfort in talking to and confiding in Jess, who battled an ED herself. She really empathised with me and provided hope, care and strategies to help me conquer my fears. It has been amazing to watch my confidence grow through talking with Jess. She has always believed in me and continues to cheer me on. She is determined to see me be the best and strongest version of myself, and her kind and positive nature has allowed me to have this courage too. Recovery is so worth it. I praise Jess for the immense amount of passion she has for helping those who struggle with an eating disorder. She has truly ignited hope in me, and I cannot wait to experience freedom!

    Anonymous

  • I was very hesitant to let people help me when I battled with anorexia, but Im so glad I decided to seek help and support from Jess. Jess helped me/stood beside me for the 2 years that I was sick with anorexia. I can honestly say that without her help I wouldn’t be living my life today completely free from my eating disorder. Jess has a way of connecting with you, that makes you feel heard, valued and cared for. Her gentle kind nature allows you to feel safe and comfortable around her. Jess helped me learn to love myself again and supported me through the all of the ups and downs that come with getting free. Having been through an eating disorder herself, she understands what it’s like and understands the crazy thoughts and battle that goes on in your mind. Jess helped me shift my perspective on life and pointed me to a life filled with hope and freedom. I would 100% recommend Jess, she is a great person to have on your team.

    Mic

  • I am very grateful to have Midi as a part of my team- she has been a huge asset to my eating disorder recovery. Midi is very compassionate about her job and her clients…she’s easy to talk to, she believes in my recovery and provides unconditional support. She has given me the skills and tools I need to tackle my eating disorder head on, and I am a better person because of it.

    Stephanie

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